They are homosexual as opposed to being heterosexualNope, 'cause I don't know what they are unless they choose to actually act on that attraction. I'm attracted to food...does that make me obese?
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They are homosexual as opposed to being heterosexualNope, 'cause I don't know what they are unless they choose to actually act on that attraction. I'm attracted to food...does that make me obese?
And the have the choice to deny their natural attractions, or to act on them and be.......happy.They are homosexual as opposed to being heterosexual
That's why I asked what makes someone a heterosexual. And you responded with the definition: which stated that is it being attracted to someone of the opposite sex.
They are homosexual as opposed to being heterosexual
And the have the choice to deny their natural attractions, or to act on them and be.......happy.
They have no choice about being attracted to only the same sex. And YES, even if they had never participated in an act of homosexual sex....they would still be homosexual.If they have no choice this is impossible. Same sex is all they are capable of having in your explanation. It's not a choice, it's all they can do...right?
Ridiculous
You knowing means absolutely JACK to the definition of wether homosexuality is natural, normal or perverse. I don't even know why you'd bring it up.It is a natural condition if you are of the opposite sex...whether you choose sex with that opposite or not. The "hetero" part means opposite...and in nature opposites normally attract. However even if you choose not to engage the opposite sex, you don't stop being a heterosexual.
Maybe a "metrosexual" but you're still heterosexual. (laughing) So what are you if you are attracted to the same sex, but choose not to engage in same sex?
How would I know that person is homosexual? Just by their attraction to the same sex?
Loving food doesn't make you anything but a food loving person....being obese makes you obese. It is not relevant to this discussion at all.Why? I love food, but you don't know I'm obese until I eat more than a normal person does. How else would you know I'm really attracted to food enough to make me obese unless I use that natural attraction to eat a hell of a lot of food?
even if they had never participated in an act of homosexual sex....they would still be homosexual.
You knowing means absolutely JACK to the definition of wether homosexuality is natural, normal or perverse. I don't even know why you'd bring it up.
Loving food doesn't make you anything but a food loving person....being obese makes you obese. It is not relevant to this discussion at all.
They know......THEY know. Again, what does you knowing have anything to do with it? And, again as well, the term normal can be interchangeable with AVERAGE or COMMON, but many use it to reference what is socially acceptable (which is the only real use to apply to our debate because I concede the fact that homosexuality is not the average or most common sexual condition in nature).I wouldn't know unless they told me...that's my point boomer!
No, and I wouldn't care.boomboom...if I didn't have my sig pic posted up here and said nothing about my race, would you know I'm Black?
Does being black make you different from me? How do you know I'm not black?boomboom...if I didn't have my sig pic posted up here and said nothing about my race, would you know I'm Black?
Does being black make you different from me? How do you know I'm not black?
I concede the fact that homosexuality is not the average or most common sexual condition in nature).
Homosexuality however, from my experiences with homosexuals, I would defend as a natural state, and a socially acceptable or "normal" state of sexuality
No we don't agree at all. It is a natural state for homosexuals, and it might not be normal is the sense that it is the average sexuality....but it's normal in the sense that it is socially accepted to me.If you are a homosexual this makes perfect sense boomer my man. For them in fact, you're probably right. However that does not make it by default a "normal" state or even a normal desire or attraction. It is something that exists true enough....but it cannot be argued to be normal. Only a different type of choice which is what I've been arguing it is all along.
You don't think there is anything "wrong" with it...and as far as I'm concerned if that's what consenting adults want to do I can't stop that or change them or force them to think or do otherwise. As long as we both recognize it is indeed their choice, and not a natural condition.
I will not however accept it as normal because it not not. I think we finally agree here boomboom!
I think it's funny how the Killary zombies,said Trump didn't have the temperament to be POTUS. And then Killary goes on a drunken rampage for 3 days after the election.Smashing 150 'tv that was given to her by a Saudi prince with a bottle of 950,000 bottle of champagne, and throwing a cake topper so viciously that it was imbeded into the wall. It took the hotel staff 3 days to cleanup all of the damages that Killarys crew did!!.. Now who has temperament issues??? LMFAO!I said Carl is racist. I will now say Trump has a racist working for him. I will also say that I am calling you out. I don't think for a moment you criticized Obama for being a member of Wright's church for 20 years.
And Obama had racists in his campaign also:
Obama campaign's Julianna Smoot send out a mass email accusing Ryan of "making a pilgrimage" to Las Vegas to "kiss the ring" of Jewish mega donor Sheldon Adelson. This was an obvious attempt to drive a wedge between Ryan and blue-collar Catholics by invoking anti-Semitic imagery; the implication is that Ryan, instead of making a pilgrimage to Rome to kiss the ring of the Pope, was heading to Vegas to kiss the ring of a wealthy Jew. Ryan, the email implied, was a Judas willing to sacrifice religion for money in the Sodom and Gomorrah of Vegas.
Like I said and you refuse to acknowledge, both parties have racists. The Dems have BLM, La Raza and the Nation of Islam for example. Overt racists.
Can you link this story, I'd love to read it.I think it's funny how the Killary zombies,said Trump didn't have the temperament to be POTUS. And then Killary goes on a drunken rampage for 3 days after the election.Smashing 150 'tv that was given to her by a Saudi prince with a bottle of 950,000 bottle of champagne, and throwing a cake topper so viciously that it was imbeded into the wall. It took the hotel staff 3 days to cleanup all of the damages that Killarys crew did!!.. Now who has temperament issues??? LMFAO!
No we don't agree at all. It is a natural state for homosexuals, and it might not be normal is the sense that it is the average sexuality....but it's normal in the sense that it is socially accepted to me.
I think it's funny how the Killary zombies,said Trump didn't have the temperament to be POTUS. And then Killary goes on a drunken rampage for 3 days after the election.Smashing 150 'tv that was given to her by a Saudi prince with a bottle of 950,000 bottle of champagne, and throwing a cake topper so viciously that it was imbeded into the wall. It took the hotel staff 3 days to cleanup all of the damages that Killarys crew did!!.. Now who has temperament issues??? LMFAO!
So is a person who's attracted to Children always a pedophile boomer? You're saying that's not a conscious choice they have no control over? In other words you'd know he's a pedophile even without the stimulation of him choosing to look at pics or even trying sex with one of 'em? (kids). He can't help what he's attracted to?[/QUOTE]
As it relates to Homosexuals not having control over their natural attractions, explain this Boomboom521? You've said there is nothing else that makes Homosexuals "gay" other than their natural attraction to the same sex which only they know and have no control over? Please explain why this is also not so for Pedophiles? (I've argued either one has to act on those deviant attractions in order to know what they are)
A Pedophile can be spotted a mile away without actually doing something to call attention to his attraction for little tykes? And you think that's normal? Just like homosexuals? There's nothing else they have to do? It's their normal state?[/QUOTE]
So you still argue that a homosexual's natural attractions exist as a natural condition? Then why don't you give that same excuse to Pedophiles? You think they have no control over their attractions to little kids, and it is only their attractions which make them Pedophiles? Same as Homosexuals is that right Boom?
No we don't agree at all. It is a natural state for homosexuals, and it might not be normal is the sense that it is the average sexuality....but it's normal in the sense that it is socially accepted to me.
And this is why you scare the Hell out of me boomboom521 my man! If you simply logically follow what you are arguing for Homosexuals as a way to justify their deviant behavior, you have to then also logically argue for Pedophiles to explain their perversion. It's the same condition boom. To which I then have to logically conclude you are perfectly fine with either because neither Pedophiles nor Homosexuals have any control over either of their natural attractions. That's your argument at least for homosexuality.
That to me boom is simply sick, and as I've said...very very scary especially for those kids of yours who I know you Love more than this debauchery you are apparently arguing for?
I don't see homosexual behavior as deviant, wrong, obscene, perverse, or unnatural. To compare it to something like pedophilia is wrong. You think homosexuals are criminals? Mentally disturbed? Dangerous?
I think a sexual attraction to young children is a psychological problem (it is about control - violation of something pure - something else as perverse) I don't think homosexuality is at all. There are heterosexual pedophiles, there are homosexual pedophiles. There is nothing deviant or perverse about homosexual attraction. Only to someone like you that feels righteous in their self-centered ideology.Yes to all. On your first statement boom
I've said it (homosexuality) is a dangerous choice...deviant even...perverse if you like....criminal? No...but sick in my opinion. It's not a crime because you do have consenting adults, but by definition they then have some measure of control over it deriving from that mutual consent.
Pedophiles on the other hand are criminals because Sex with Children is indeed a crime (as it should be). But I'm asking you to explain to me the difference between their perversions boom. You're arguing in the case of homosexual perversion...they have no control over it and it is quite natural. All I want to know is why you don't offer that same explanation to Pedophiles who only are naturally attracted to kids or stimulated by them? I'm not talking about them actually having Sex with them because as I said that is a crime.
What's the difference though Boom to you in their perverse sexual attractions? Isn't that what you said is all that's needed which defines someone as gay?
I think a sexual attraction to young children is a psychological problem (it is about control - violation of something pure - something else as perverse) I don't think homosexuality is at all. There are heterosexual pedophiles, there are homosexual pedophiles. There is nothing deviant or perverse about homosexual attraction. Only to someone like you that feels righteous in their self-centered ideology.
I think a sexual attraction to young children is a psychological problem (it is about control - violation of something pure
And YES, even if they had never participated in an act of homosexual sex....they would still be homosexual.
Like I said.....there are homosexual and heterosexual pedophiles. That fact makes it independent of sexual attraction to the same or opposite sex. So therefore it IS different. You say that your heterosexuality is natural, but if that heterosexuality turned into an attraction for a female that was pre-pubescent----it becomes a much different attraction.OK, thanks for your explanation boom. As I understand you, in the case of an attraction for little kids the natural attraction has nothing to do with one's natural feelings...it's a psychological problem.
In the case of homosexuals, their natural attraction to the same sex is not at all psychological, it's just how they naturally feel as a condition of their birth. Only homosexual attractions are normal, but when those same natural sexual attractions or urges turn in the mind to little kids, then it's a psychological problem.
Got it boom. Thanks for clearing that up for me my Man!
I don't see it as a natural attraction.Where do you get all of that about Pedophiles just from their "natural attraction" to Children? Not Sex with them boom, just their uncontrollable attraction which by your own definition is all that makes them Pedophiles just like the same uncontrollable attraction to the same sex for Homosexuals?
Like I said.....there are homosexual and heterosexual pedophiles. That fact makes it independent of sexual attraction to the same or opposite sex. So therefore it IS different. You say that your heterosexuality is natural, but if that heterosexuality turned into an attraction for a female that was pre-pubescent----it becomes a much different attraction.
I don't see it as a natural attraction.
don't see it as a natural attraction.
One: pedophilia is the attraction to a FORCED sexual relationship with a vulnerable partner.Yes it is...because my natural (hetero) condition is opposite of a Female if I chose Sex with them or not.
In the case of a minor, even if I have that attraction and don't act on it, it's still perverse because Adults should not be desiring sex with little kids. But I'm still a heterosexual even with those depraved thoughts.
That is not what you are arguing for Homosexuals boom. I'm simply trying to apply the same logic you use to explain their attraction (natural or not) for the same sex and applying the same standard to Pedophile attraction (not sex) and wondering why one is only a psychological problem to you and the other is normal yet the only variable as I see it is the object of their attraction, not the natural attraction itself?
You've certainly explained a difference in the object of the attraction, but you have not explained why one is normal and the other is a psychological disorder?
(btw..I'm of the opinion that both are psychological disorders, as well as unnatural attractions)
Got it?One: pedophilia is the attraction to a FORCED sexual relationship with a vulnerable partner.
Two: this sexual relationship does not exist is nature. Mostly because prepubescent animals do not exhibit the sensual attractive features (scent, etc..) that initiates sexual attraction. The most common attraction for men are breasts (this is an attraction to a mate that has reached puberty).
Three: If a pedophile is attracted to children when they are children: that's not pedophilia it's either homo or heterosexuality. So, it's only when someone is grown past puberty themselves can they develop an attraction to prepubescent children. This makes it, to me, both an unatural attraction and probably a product of psychological development (most likely a disorder relating to the pedophiles own childhood trauma)
One: pedophilia is the attraction to a FORCED sexual relationship with a vulnerable partner.
Two: this sexual relationship does not exist is nature. Mostly because prepubescent animals do not exhibit the sensual attractive features (scent, etc..) that initiates sexual attraction. The most common attraction for men are breasts (this is an attraction to a mate that has reached puberty).
Three: If a pedophile is attracted to children when they are children: that's not pedophilia it's either homo or heterosexuality. So, it's only when someone is grown past puberty themselves can they develop an attraction to prepubescent children. This makes it, to me, both an unatural attraction and probably a product of psychological development (most likely a disorder relating to the pedophiles own childhood trauma)
I just described why. It is the attraction to a forced relationship, no prepubescent child is sexually driven....ther fore the attraction is to someone that is NOT attracted to the pedophile and is NOT attracted to sexual activity in any manner.No it's not Boom
"A pedophile is a person who has a sustained sexual orientation toward children, generally aged 13 or younger. Not all pedophiles are child molesters (or vice versa). "Child molesters are defined by their acts; pedophiles are defined by their desires"
You are describing Child molesters if you're talking about "force", and ascribing their actions to simple natural attractions of Pedophiles. Remember I said, there is no actual sex involved, only the natural attraction just as in the case of homosexuals.
In the second boldface, that's not for gays, according to you. They have no natural attraction to Female breasts, only for a hairy Male's ass. Right Boom?
Third in bold is the classic definition of a Pedophile. The rest only occurs when actual Sex is involved, and that's EXACTLY the opposite of what you are arguing that makes one Homosexual! You said no sex need be involved, only attraction in order for one to be considered Homosexual. That is exactly what you've been arguing in this thread.
So why is a simple attraction to Children in the case of a Pedophile ascribed all of these other undesirable traits in your definition, yet when it comes to Homosexuals, they need do nothing more than just desire Sex with their own kind to be considered "normal" to you?