I understand your point of view and I empathize with your frustrations. We just have different attitudes about it and mine isn't better than yours.
WVU sports is pretty much my only recreational outlet these days. I'm self-employed, have young kids, a house to maintain, ect., and the WVU football games are the only time I clear for myself and reserve for enjoyment. Whether it's attending the game or watching from home, I just look forward to it. Their record or performance doesn't change much for me. I can't really separate myself from it, as WVU is where I got my bachelor's and most of my close friendships were made there. I don't want to separate from all that simply because we aren't playing well.
I just try to take the bad with the good and accept that fact that if you're a fan of a team, it's won't always be great. Overall I feel WVU fans have a lot to be happy about. Recent BCS bowl wins, an invitation into a really great athletic conference, Sweet 16's, a Final 4, some great individual football victories, ect.
My concern is that Lyons doesn't get the next hire right. He's never made this decision before and considering things haven't been the same @ WVU since RR left, his selection will be very important. Winning at WVU isn't as easy as many posters make it to be. We are a great program with some limitations and we need a coach that understands how to work around them and gain a competitive advantage. Bob Huggins is doing that now. RR did it too.
Personally, I want RR back. I think his departure ripped out some of WVU's soul (and his own) and only his return can repair it. He's a good coach - period. Even when his teams were bad, they were mean and prepared. His system works here. He can recruit properly for it. We can get good option QB's and backs and lineman to run it. JMO.