First of all, I haven't "admitted" anything. If you would have paid attention, you would have noticed this statement I made two days ago:
I clearly referenced the Virginia situation. The previous post was not the first time I referenced the Virginia situation, so you are factually incorrect.
Now, let me get to your one legitimate point. You asked if the process is so rational, then why is West Virginia flying to the Midwest for games? Well, that's because the process is only conference-by-conference. For example, the SEC did not get permission from the Big Ten to expand. The SEC did not ask the Big Ten if there would be any problem taking Texas A&M and Missouri. The SEC did not ask if West Virginia or South Florida would be inconvenienced by SEC expansion. The SEC simply identified the most valuable teams for its conference, and took those teams. They don't care what happens to teams not in their conference.
Each conference acts in its own self interest. There isn't some larger entity that controls expansion so the process is orderly for all of college football. Each conference simply takes the teams that give it the most value. The SEC felt Texas A&M and Missouri were the most valuable, so they took those teams. The Big Ten felt Rutgers and Maryland were the most valuable, so they took those teams. The Pac 12 felt Utah and Colorado were the most valuable, so they took those teams. The ACC felt Pittsburgh and Syracuse were the most valuable, so they took those teams. It's literally no more complicated than that.
You have this idea that there is some overarching governing body that controls which schools go into which conference. It simply doesn't work that way. Each conference is autonomous, and decided what would be in its own self-interest. They don't worry about accommodating schools that aren't in their league.
The rest of your post was simply a pure emotional response. It wasn't rational or logical. You keep getting mad at the ACC, but as I pointed out, the SEC would also be a good fit for West Virginia, but the SEC didn't take West Virginia either. The fact that neither conference took West Virginia shows that it wasn't just the ACC being "stuck up." It shows that the two closest conferences simply felt they could get more money by taking other teams. Lashing out emotionally isn't going to solve anything for you. It certainly won't help you analyze the situation logically.