Damn. We didnt have a fairy tale wedding. We had way more wedding than we wanted because we wanted a small wedding but after family and friends it was 70-80 people. Nothing extravagent but we were married and had our honeymoon for less than 3k. This chick thinks 18k is a basic human right.
That is what we wanted to do but her dad earned the privilege of giving her away so we decided to have a ceremony. It went from parents and siblings to aunts and uncles to a small church. It was nice.enough. my wife would rather go to a game in morgantown than have a big party. I am pretty lucky.